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HOW TO GET THE MOST OUT OF YOUR WEDDING VENDORS (And Other Good Stuff to Know!)


Hiring people to work for you at your wedding means you have just become the HR department for your own event planning company. Essentially, you are becoming someone’s boss.

What kind of boss do you want to be?

What kind of boss do you like working for?

What Makes Wedding Vendors Different?
If you are planning a wedding, then you already know it can be a stressful and expensive job!  There are so many things to consider when searching and hiring the perfect venue, caterer, photographer, florist, wedding planner, DJ and videographer, among many other details.  

Most vendors are small businesses born from the desire to help make a special event in people's lives memorable, but there are varying ideas of how to do just that.  Because of this, doing your "shopping" is very important so you can find the vendors who specifically suit you and the kind of event you are dreaming of.  Doing research regarding different vendors’ attributes goes a long way in the planning process, and then the relationship between you and the vendors can make or break your event. Keep in mind that all vendors are NOT created equally. Typically, vendors price their product or service to stay competitive in the market, but they also price their product to compensate them for their quality and experience.

A Great Relationship with Your Vendors Really Does Matter!
Getting “more” from your vendors is not about bargaining, negotiating the best price, or asking for free “extras”.  It’s about creating a work environment and relationship that creates a sense of loyalty and desire to give willingly. But how?  How do you do this for one day, with a person you have only just met? In this guide we are going to share with you some easy ways to become your vendor’s favorite client, and hopefully provide you with the maximum service for the investment you made with them.

READ THE INFORMATION YOUR VENDOR GIVES YOU
Most vendors spend hours painstakingly creating websites, emails, and information packets so that you can have all the details about them delivered to you as quickly and efficiently as possible.  It’s kind of a running joke in the wedding vendor community how often we get asked, “What is your pricing?” when potential clients had to scroll past the pricing to find our contact information.  Clients who do some of their own leg-work instantly earn our respect and are better prepared to make important decisions for their event!  Also know that small businesses change their pricing occasionally.  A price quote you received is not valid forever.

BE RESPECTFUL OF THEIR TIME
Wedding Vendors are very often small business owners who strive to balance work time and home time, and sometimes the wedding biz isn’t even their full time job. Be on time for appointments and if you can’t make it, please let them know with as much lead time as possible.  

IT'S OK TO SAY, "NO, THANK YOU"
There are lots of reasons why a vendor might not be a good fit.  Whether it is a matter of budget, style, even personality, it's okay to say, “I’m sorry, but we’ve decided to book someone else”.  This way the date you were looking to book for can be offered to someone else.  Trust us, we have been told "no" before!  You are assembling a team and you want to find the best players for your needs.

DON'T LOSE YOUR DATE!
So, you have done your homework, compared different vendors and their services and products, and you have carefully have chosen the best "team players" for your wedding!  You call your vendor and verbally commit to a date.  Congratulations!  Verbally committing to a date should be promptly followed by signing a contract and paying your deposit/retainer fee.  Most vendors abide by the "first come, first served" rule, so if you are slow to do these important things to "seal the deal", unfortunately, you might lose your date!  Promptness in this will also take stress off of you because you will be one step closer to your dream wedding! 

"WHAT ABOUT A DISCOUNT?"
This is one of the questions vendors are asked the most.  While it is perfectly acceptable to inquire if there are any promotions or a discount available for your date, it is very beneficial for a prospective client to do their "homework", as mentioned before.  Your vendor may already be charging less than others of similar style and quality, so they may not be open to negotiating a price.  But, since it never "hurts" to ask, you might want to start the conversation with a sincere compliment. 

Comparing your prospective DJ with "Cousin Bill and his Boombox", stating that he will do it for cheaper or for free, well, if you think that he can do the same job as a professional, top notch DJ, maybe you should hire "Cousin Bill".  (Again, the homework thing.) 

Know your vendors' product versus others in the field so you can make an informed decision for one of the most important days of your life and to be able to give a sincere compliment!  Let your vendor know that you truly value their service and time, and then make your offer!  You never know, the vendor you really want might be open to some negotiating.

Don't forget to listen to the podcast that corresponds with this blog for more information!
 
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